Monday, October 31, 2016

Anatomy of a hole in one

The third hole on the Lakes Course at Fairbanks Ranch Country Club is 160 yards from the gold tees. There are traps left and right. I used a seven wood to hit a high draw which hit the green. I couldn't see where the ball went, and my partner thought it might have gone in the hole. I agreed, but like a pitcher with a no hitter going in the ninth inning, I didn't want to "jinx' myself. We walked to the green and saw no ball. Josh walked to the hole, looked down, and said, "See." Sure enough there was my ball in the cup.

Saturday, October 22, 2016

Stories from the road
October 19, 2016
Beverly, Mass.




The air is warm and heavy this morning on Massachusetts’s North Shore. Soon we will head south to play golf with high school classmate Tony Jones and his wife Anne. Tony grew up in San Francisco whereas my family lived near Boston. We have switched coasts, as Tony now lives in Scituate, a seaside community on the south shore of Massachusetts.

Last night we had dinner with our friend, Cynthia, at Legal Seafood. Vicki and I had scrod, which was delicious. We encouraged Cynthia to take a cruise she had been eyeballing. I learned this morning that she will be sailing to Norway and other destinations in 2017. Cynthia is an accomplished artist, who seriously began painting in adulthood.

Golf yesterday was fun at the Marshfield Country Club with Tony and Anne Jones. It was Indian Summer, and the temperature must have been in the mid seventies. Later we dined at a fine restaurant in Hingham. Tony and Anne met in Beirut in the 60’s, and their meeting and courtship sounded like something out of a Hemingway novel.

Tony told a story of giving a ride across many countries to a penniless man. His rider would slip across the borders and meet Tony on the other side. Tony paid for many of his meals, and 6 months, after dropping his passenger in France, Tony received a check in the mail, covering what he had given the man.

We drove along a number of seaside communities last night including Hingham, Cohasset, and Scituate. The air was clear and the light sharp. I thought I was driving through a series of paintings. The towns were classic New England. I can understand why super wealthy people own multiple homes. There are so many nice places to live.



Stories from the Road
September 28, 2016
Reggio Calabria, Italy

Our guide Tatiana perhaps reflects her culture. She is accepting of frustrations and unmet goals in way that Americans might not. However, opportunities are much less in this part of Italy than in America, and her positions make sense in many ways. She is conscientious and works hard, but there are limitations to what she can accomplish.





Yesterday we stumbled onto a restaurant in the woods. I loved the place right away, and upon sitting down, we were greeted by the owner. He was a handsome, gracious man who steered us to the day’s specialties. First we had an antipasto of hot and cold items and then a homemade fettuccine with mushrooms picked that morning. I told him that if his restaurant were in Del Mar, it would be full every night! He said he heard that comment frequently from visiting tourists. I only wish I could go back, but we have moved back to Reggio Calabria tonight.

Last night we ate a locals’ place in Gerace. There were a lot of guys snacking and drinking wine at the bar, when we arrived. Then they left, but they came back for more wine later. I assumed they went home for dinner and returned to chat with their friends. Many of the restaurants in Calabria don’t have menus. The waiter tells you what he has, and often he’ll ask the chef to fix what you might want, if it isn’t being offered. It is an informal and personal way of dining that is attractive.
 
Yesterday the Caribinieri for reasons unknown stopped us. They checked our passports, Tatiana’s license and then let us go. Vicki and I were stopped a couple of times a few years ago in Sardinia. Go figure.

Tonight we ate at our hotel. I was exhausted and not up for going out, and things worked out well. We had delicious chicken cutlets with mixed salad and shared a cannoli for desert. I had some ice-cold Tenant beer from Scotland to accompany my meal. Vicki was the only woman in the dining room as the other tables were filled with groups of men. Some were staying at the hotel, but several groups came in from the street. Being in foreign countries always raises questions about how different cultures do things. It is fun to think about.






Stories from the road
September 30, 2016
Reggio Calabria, Italy

An hour and a half from the Mediterranean there is a ski resort! We drove through a National Park, and came to the area, which looked about the size of a small New England or New York State resort. Later we passed a number of mushroom gatherers on our way down the hills to a seaside resort that was very beautiful. Lunch consisted of a shrimp pasta dish for me and swordfish for Vicki. After lunch I walked into the kitchen and thanked the chef, who had sent out gratis espressos for us. He was a very nice guy as was Francisco, our waiter.




Earlier Tatiana took us to her family’s bakery, where we met her mother and received some bread to take to Sicily. Her mother is only a few years older than me, but looks much older. She has had a hard life with a difficult husband and not many resources.
 
After a few days in Syracusa, we will head back to Rome, where we’ll meet Matt Zetumer and Lynn Corrin, friends from Del Mar for dinner. They will have recently returned from a hiking trip in Cinque Terra. After Rome we’ll be travelling to Boston and then New Hampshire for a week before driving to the Cape Cod area.

Calabria has been an interesting place to visit. The beautiful coastline quickly rises into the mountains to produce a stunning landscape. The region’s natural resources are in contrast to the sense of economic sluggishness that pervades the area. There aren’t a lot of high-end places for tourists, but life here is not expensive. Our meals, which were excellent, cost about half of what they would in the Unites States. The people of Calabria seem very friendly. Over the course of our time here I only saw one grumpy person at a lunch spot, and that was I.

Have a good day.




Stories from the road
Hancock, New Hampshire
October 12, 2016

I had a good feeling about the Peterborough Diner, as soon as I saw it. Maybe it is my cumulated experience of diners. They always seem to deliver! At any rate I wasn’t mistaken. The roast turkey sandwich that Vicki and I split was excellent. Our waitress was totally on the ball, and we left satisfied customers.
 




The morning has been spent driving through the rolling hills of southern New Hampshire taking foliage pictures. I thought I had some excellent ones in the 75 or so I took. However I had neglected to put a memory card in my camera! Say what?  Stuff happens, and Vicki and I had a good laugh about it.

In our travels we stumbled on the Monadnock Country Club, and tomorrow we tee off at 10:00 A.M. It is a 9 hole, hilly course that looks like fun to play. The man at the course was very friendly and told me they hadn’t been reserving tee times for ten years due to few players.

Last night Mary Rose came to our Inn, and we had dinner here. Our waitress was excellent as were our meals. I saw an elderly man walk to the table next to ours for dinner. I immediately thought, “This is trouble.”  Sure enough, at one point he had a meltdown, complaining he had been waiting an hour and a half for his food. This was a major exaggeration, and I was impressed how the waitress kept her cool, as did the two women, who were dining with him. Tonight we’ll meet Mary Rose for dinner at a restaurant in Peterborough.



For Tom

For Tom

When the call of the loon meets us at lake’s shore,
And the mountain winds bring fall’s air,
We’ll call out to you,
We will bring you to the place of the wolf and bear,

We’ll rejoice in the triumph of your spirit.

Stories from the Road

Stories from the road
October 21, 2016
Brewster, Mass.

Low-lying clouds and a light rain have descended upon Cape Cod at 5:00 PM on a Friday afternoon. We drove down from Mattapoisett along highway 6A this morning. I have often said that a photographer could spend his entire career taking pictures along a 25-mile stretch of scenic 6A. The marshes, the homes, the wildlife; they are all beautiful.

Steve Valle, our host, and Vicki and I went to lunch at Land Ho in Orleans. It is hard to beat the clam chowder and fresh oysters there.  Later we went to a well-known ice cream place. While there about twenty elementary school students came in to buy ice cream and candy. It was Friday, they had money, and they were all excited. I thought this is a kind of pure joy that is hard to come by as an adult. Steve took a picture that captured the scene.

On the way out of the shop a local stopped me and said he had to tell me something he had overheard. One of the kids said to another, “ Did you just text me?” His friend replied, “ I don’t know. What did I say?” The man and the woman he was with couldn’t stop laughing!

Our friend Tom Hardy should be in the air now on a medivac flight from France to San Diego. Tom was in the ICU in France for three weeks fighting an infection. We all are hoping for the best for Tom and Michele, his wife, who has done an amazing job helping to mobilize his care under the most trying of circumstances. If everything goes according to plan, Tom should be in Palomar Hospital by 8:00 tonight. After writing this, I received a text from Michele that the plane had landed in San Diego.




Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Stories from the Road
October 3, 2016
Siracusa, Sicily
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After walking through some colorful markets teeming with fresh fish, fruit, cheese, and Pike’s Market type guys yelling about their products, we made our way to the local bus stop to head out to some ruins.  The bus was confusing in terms of how to pay, and the driver didn’t help much as he was impatient. I gave a Dutch couple a Euro so they could stay on the bus. The woman called me a “doll”, and repaid me at the ticket booth of the ruins.
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There was a young Italian guy on the bus, and he was friendly and trying to be helpful. Once a Brit asked him how many more stops, and the young man hit the stop signal, thinking the Brit wanted to get off the bus. I though, Oh,Oh, here we go with the bus driver again, but he didn’t get upset.

After the ruins we took a cab back to the hotel and rested, before walking into the Old Town for lunch. We split an insalata mista and a dish of pasta vongole, which was delicious. Later we stopped for pistachio and hazelnut gelato. Tonight we’ll dine in our hotel, which has a terrific looking restaurant.
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Over the years I have learned not to order martinis in Europe.  What you typically get is a glass of Vermouth. At the hotel bar I noticed a martini shaker and a martini glass, so I thought I would give it another try. Mistake. The Bartender reached for a bottle of Vermouth and a cocktail glass, before I stopped him. I tried to get him to give me the shaker, but it was not to be. The martini was ok, not great, but at dinner the bartender, now waiter, came alive, and Evan and I ended up doing some Italian bonding. This morning at breakfast he brought us cannolis with fresh, sweet, Ricotta cheese.







David DiCicco
858-342-0705  (cell)
Stories from the Road
October 3, 2016
Siracusa, Sicily
 thumb_DSCF3594_1024.jpeg
After walking through some colorful markets teeming with fresh fish, fruit, cheese, and Pike’s Market type guys yelling about their products, we made our way to the local bus stop to head out to some ruins.  The bus was confusing in terms of how to pay, and the driver didn’t help much as he was impatient. I gave a Dutch couple a Euro so they could stay on the bus. The woman called me a “doll”, and repaid me at the ticket booth of the ruins.
 thumb_DSCF3590_1024.jpeg
There was a young Italian guy on the bus, and he was friendly and trying to be helpful. Once a Brit asked him how many more stops, and the young man hit the stop signal, thinking the Brit wanted to get off the bus. I though, Oh,Oh, here we go with the bus driver again, but he didn’t get upset.

After the ruins we took a cab back to the hotel and rested, before walking into the Old Town for lunch. We split an insalata mista and a dish of pasta vongole, which was delicious. Later we stopped for pistachio and hazelnut gelato. Tonight we’ll dine in our hotel, which has a terrific looking restaurant.
 thumb_DSCF3586_1024.jpeg
Over the years I have learned not to order martinis in Europe.  What you typically get is a glass of Vermouth. At the hotel bar I noticed a martini shaker and a martini glass, so I thought I would give it another try. Mistake. The Bartender reached for a bottle of Vermouth and a cocktail glass, before I stopped him. I tried to get him to give me the shaker, but it was not to be. The martini was ok, not great, but at dinner the bartender, now waiter, came alive, and Evan and I ended up doing some Italian bonding. This morning at breakfast he brought us cannolis with fresh, sweet, Ricotta cheese.







David DiCicco
858-342-0705  (cell)